My state has a so-called “bathroom bill” in play, and I’m disgusted. If a man wants to attack a woman in a woman’s bathroom, he will, regardless of the law
My wife and I have a joke. We tell it when we are out in public, at an airport or a restaurant or concert, and I need to use the bathroom. When I stand up to find a restroom I say to her, “Okay, honey, if I’m not out in five minutes, come look for me.”
We always laugh but, actually, it’s not that funny. The “joke” plays on the fact that I’m a gender non-conforming person, and bathrooms are not safe spaces for me. This has always been true, but in the current political climate, when states are passing laws regulating the use of bathrooms by trans and gender non-confirming people, we’ve been telling this joke more.
Sometimes gallows humor is all you have.
Here’s what happens when I go into a public restroom. I am female-bodied, but dress in a way that fits my own understanding of my…
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